Mods in question:

Growlfs Animated hair
HGEC blue bikini
Amazing Jump.
Sexy Walk.

Yes ive read the directions and placed the files in their supposed proper folders.

No, these files did not seem to be working or showing up in-game after they are activated.

I am using the "latest" oblivion patch

I am using the unofficial patch.

I have tried to use OBMM With 60/40% failure/success

I have gotten mods like the Ren pack and a few animation mods to work. I just wish these files would go in smoothly.

If you have any idea what I did wrong or how to remedy the situation, please help me out =(.

Amazing jump never worked for me...I thought perhaps it's because I've always played custom races.

do any of these mods require OBSE?

If so, the instructions did not say as far as I remember. Do you think OBSE would solve the problem either way?

Doubt it would help in the case of these mods, but you might as well use OBSE if you don't already, as there are many quality mods that need it.

Ok, i believe i found the problem but I dont know how to fix it. My oblivion version claims that it is still 1.0.228. the version required for the mods listed is the 1.2 patch. I dont know why it is not patching properly or why that number is not changing, but it seems that that is what is holding me back from using the mods. Anyone know how I could fix this?

Did you perchance update a European version with a North-American one, or v.v.?
This causes errors and will not update your version-nr. in the main menu. Check that you match the language versions please, hopefully that will alleviate your problem(s).