QUOTE(Vagrant0 @ Aug 23 2008, 02:18 AM)

The problem is that nobody will agree. Some people want semi-realistic proportions, some people want massive cartoony breasts. There were actually 2 body mods for morrowind, just one stopped getting supported because there weren't enough people making content for it. The case is totally different when it comes to Oblivion modding because there are more people who can make new meshes, and more information is available about the .nif format. If even within a body mod you have multiple versions for different busts, hips, and butt, you can't expect any single body mod to be good enough for anyone.
The only way that body mods could be made less complicated is if people settled on a single style of UV mapping for the body, so that only one set of textures would be used, and all clothing mods would technically be compatable with eachother since the skin portions would all be mapped the same. It is really the mapping which is making one body mod conflict so much with other body mods, if that could ever be sorted out, everyone would be a bit better off. The downside to this is that all existing mods would need to have their skin portions updated to match the new standard, and as several of those mod authors are no longer around, those mods won't ever get updated.
Great answer.
I like to play girls who I can identify with. When I was young I was super-skinny (like 95 pounds) and so I love the Eshme proportions, but the textures are sadly neglected. When I got older and filled out I put about 20 pounds and "filled out". Even when I was a little kid I had booty that "stuck out" and when I filled out I had other things sticking out too!! hahahaha
So I also love the Exnem bodies. In the last two years I put on 10 more pounds and looked more like Exnem Standard lower body (which I hate) and one of the busty top models which I'm not telling, but this summer I have just been dropping those ten pounds left and right, so I feel more like the Fighter body version- WooT!
Pretty complicated, right, and that's JUST ONE VIEWPOINT.
I looked at Growlf's last night, and his breast textures are super weird looking. On every model the areolas are completely strange, not look a real woman's breasts but very much like a weird cartoon. So I can't relate to that. Men may want a fantasy, but I believe most women want something to resembles ourselves, it ups the identification factor -- if we're playing women. I really have no interest in playing a male character, I've never wanted to be a man, personally. The thought is repugnant to me - but I'm strange that way. But I do have a boyfriend in the game. I took a mod-added character and edited his face to my perfect taste, and added Roberts Muscular Male, and my girl is pretty happy.
One thing I don't like about Exnem's bodies, is that every model seems to have a "tummy pooch" which I detest. Some of the clothes really make it stand out, personally I wouldn't leave my house in pants that make my belly look like that.
Now to only find (or create) a mod that let's you customize a romance with any character. I envision "Oblivion Dating and Romance Mod" with dialog romance and candles: how about "Dinner and a Dungeon" Hahahaha