Disregarding the mods themself, as a whole or the loadorder for now (advices, what mod to add w/o conflicts, etc. would be great also)... I have a stupid problem.
All characters have no eyeballs, means: no eye meshes.
I've tried at least 30 minutes to check which mod causes this, but then I gave up.
It would be awsome if there's someone with a nice advice here, because as it seems, I don't get it on my own
Maybe I'm to dull, to find the source of this on my own.
So here is my temporary Modlist with it's LO:

Oblivion.esm
HorseCombatMaster.esm
Kvatch Rebuilt.esm
Unofficial Oblivion Patch.esp
tda_ScytheModv1.2.esp
Streamline 3.0.esp
Atmospheric Oblivion.esp
Oblivion Citadel Door Fix.esp
SethsNPCequipmentRarity-beta.esp
Crowded Roads.esp
AFLevelMod.esp
Update My Statue.esp
RealisticForceMedium.esp
VA_UniqueKatana1Replace.esp
VA_UniqueKatana1.esp
DEJ Harvest - Flora.esp
Housewives v101.esp
RealisticMagicForceMedium.esp
MidasSpells.esp
Beautiful PeopleV22 - MaleReplacerV3.esp
More Female Servants.esp
PersuasionOverhaul.esp
DecoratorAssistant v1.1.esp
Harvest[Containers].esp
Deadly Reflex - Timed Block + Higher Damage.esp
Harvest[Containers] - Player Home Add-on.esp
Quest Award Leveller.esp
SuddenViolence_ElementalSpells.esp
SuddenViolence_Push.esp
SuddenViolence_Sprint.esp
SuddenViolence_CombatMoves.esp
Francesco's 10 days respawn time - 1-20 day lenght rescale.esp
Akatosh Mount By Saiden Storm.esp
EnchantmentRestore.esp
Mounted_Spellcasting Deadly Reflex Compatible.esp
moDem's City Life.esp
OSR_pose.esp
Sonia.esp
kalikuts_bracelets.esp
Symphony of Violence.esp
TNR ALL RACES FINAL.esp
DeadlyReflex - Combat Moves.esp
BravilSeaDomes.esp
Kvatch Rebuilt.esp
P1DmenuEscape.esp


Please help me ;__;

Beautiful PeopleV22 - MaleReplacerV3.esp

This is my best bet. Try to turn it off. I suffer the same problem, and the only matching mods are Beautiful PeopleV22 - MaleReplacerV3.esp.

Hi. I looked at your mod list, and you're definitely in need of load-ordering.

Your Unofficial Oblivion Patch should be immediately after oblivion.esm.

I offer the suggestion to use Random's FCOM Helper. I've had great success with it. Then I run OBMM immediately after FCOM, so that the hidden file "Plugins.txt" is updated. Oblivion uses Plugins.txt.

Here's the URL to find FCOM Helper: FCOM Helper

Take note of the Description, because FCOM Helper needs the Microsoft C++ Runtime Library 2008 re-distributable in order to run.

Microsoft C++ Runtime Library

After you're done with FCOM Helper, run OBMM, wait about 10 seconds, then close it. That way Plugins.txt will be updated with the FCOM Helper load-order.

Thank you very much for that advice, Varus, I think that might clear up a different problem I have been experiencing.

Am I correct that one may use the FCOM Helper for load ordering without necessarily having to use FCOM?

Yes, that's correct. You don't have to have FCOM mod to use Random's FCOM Helper. After you've got everything installed, you run it from within the Data folder by double-clicking on the .bat file (not the .exe). then Notepad will open up with your list, then after a while you'll notice a quick flash, meaning some .txt files were just written & saved.

Run OBMM like I mentioned in my comment, so your hidden file is updated with the latest load-order.

And you're welcome. Glad I could help.

Del_diablo is right. Beautiful PeopleV22 - MaleReplacerV3.esp is a compatibility patch between Beatiful Peopke and MalbeReplacerV3 and is to be activated only if you have the mod Beatiful People installed and as I see you don't have it. I had the same issue. And after I deactivated the patch all went back to normal.

Cheers

Maafiaman

Issue is solved, but in two strange ways.

1. Deactivating the replacer in the modmanager wasn't carried over to the game, had to disable it in the Oblivionlauncher
2. Deactivated it, Eye Meshes came back, but the effect of the male replacer mod is still there, not the badest thing add all.

Thx for every reply and the tip with FCOM, it's great, but kinda stupid to install.
I've added a couple of other mods, arranged my modlist... and now... I'm set

BTW: excuse my bad english