*Sigh*

I am Australia as I'm sure most of you know, and I am now in Perth.

I first went to Sydney, and I met the most BEAUTIFUL girl there.

It was like instantly falling in love. There was bonding between us, we had a lot in common, and I was forced to leave her back in Sydney because of my schedule.

WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME?!?!

That is all. Feel free to enter your input.

A very sad and lonely person,
gman021

Seems there is nothing wrong with you.

Ahem, it's called being a teenager, my friend.

You.ve got nothing to worry about, that's normal. What's not normal is that I found out that one of the guys who bullied me when I was younger had committed suicide this afternoon and I actually feel sorry for the poor guy even though he made my life miserable long ago.

That shows maturity,good for you! Feeling sorry for someone who has wronged you makes you the better person!

Well if your question is if there is something wrong about you... Nope there is nothing wrong about you... You are young and you will learn to deal with them eventually... Your case remind me of something, a song actually... From the game Playboy Mansion... The name of the song was Chemical...

Listen and you will understand what I mean

No, I get what you all mean, it's just that I feel guilty somehow. Like I left part of myself back in Sydney...

This seemed different...

*Sigh*

It does every time....

lol what guilt dude? I will sound cruel but dont you think she will move on? Do you think she is suffering like you? Does she think about you too?

Get over it man dont worry you will feel fine as soon as you see another chick and bond with her, try being less sentimental and more heartless, that will ease the pain

Oh...young love...how sweet....can you hear my puking sounds from there?

I joke..it is sweet Gman! But this too shall pass!

You know the best part ?
Years from now, she'll be watching her grandchildren playing in the yard and think of him.
Her husband will never understand why she got that far away look and the slight smile.....

I think thats the kind of stuff he doesn't want to hear. I've been there to (Liking someone who doesn't know it. Which is kind of like it. I liked her, we talked, had things in common but she didn't feel the same way) and it does hurt but you have to put up with it and eventually you will forget.

You think he doesn't hope he made enough impression that she'll remember him the rest of her life ? And if you forget...it wasn't worth remembering....nor even having to begin with. <cue females to say "ahh, that's sweet">

Yeah, that feeling really sucks. Last year I was in love with this one girl for 6 months and was too afraid to do anything because I yhought she was too pretty for me. Eventually we became good friends and all my friends urged me to ask her out because they thought she liked me too. I then got the guts to do it. I will probably remember that moment for the rest of my life. We where standing on opposite sides of the school gates after school came out. I can't really remember much of the act itself, but it was like blacking out when I actually asked her, all other sounds and everything just seemed to die away for t5hat few moments, can't even remember the exact words I used. She stood there looking as if I'd hit her and couldn't look me in the eyes. She didn't want to answer me and I had to run to make it in time for the bus She didn't even answer me the next day and we haven't talked much since, argued once, but not talked.

Oh well, I'll look back on the memory one day and chuckle softly and my wife will look at me suspiciously.

That is a good point but what I was trying to say is that maybe he doesn't want to think about that as maybe that will just make him more sad.

Good Lord mate. Don't make me Up-Chuck. That's just TOO "Lovey-Dovey."

Well, I just got her email address, so it's a bit better now. I also found out that she's coming to Minnesota soon. She's never seen snow!

Thank you for your in-put and support everyone.

Regards,
gman021

Oh yeah, just found out about that bully, apparently he committed suicide because his whole family is atheist and he turned Christian, and his family was giving him an hard time about it. His mom came home after work and saw the safe door was open and their gun gone, so she called the police. His father found him on the beach.

Makes me feel all wierd because he was born in a atheist family and turned Christian, I was born in a Christian family and I don't know if I could be classified as one.

I know how your feeling, sweet pea.

Sorry to tell you this, but it doesn't get any easier as you get older. You just know how to cope with it better, as you age. Take it one day at a time, you will get over it, and this is probably real crappy advice, but here it goes anyway.

To quickly get over somebody is to get under someone else. It will lessen the blow of the person you have to get over, but the concequences are, your post-poning the grieving process. Believe it or not I heard this from a doctor.

<who let's me say these things, I shouldn't be allowed out in public>

Jeez...make us feel sorry for you, cryin' our eyes out for you, then you pull this kak about her coming for a visit. I ought ta smack ya upside the head.

On the subject of love i can offer no advice. Dispite any words of wisdom i may offer i know all to well that; the only way to deal with your problems is a strong dosege of swift kicks to the pants. (your pants) It seems to me that have become smitten. So i suggest to options rather than entereing self induced accoma. Thus if you do not want to live in grief and sorrow i think you ought to try...

1 -GO GET HER!!! sweep her off her feet and take her to see mamma mia. Do something in the romantic field department. WOO-her all that jazz.

2 -Autohypotize your self so you forget that Brown eyed girl.


I'm certain that most people wouldn't trust in matters of LOVE. In fact i don't trust myself, however i can see that there is nothing wrong with you. Nothing wrong that would interfere in this current situation. And i being we being us agree that depression is a choice that you wish to avoid. Furthermore we speaking for i speaking for us has concluded that the illogical answer is the advantegous one, But us thinkng of we thinking for i, knowing you have given the opinions of all of us, i and we.

My only real advice is that there is no poor choice here. All of them have the same pros and cons, but your choice is your own and ypu are running out of tiem to make it.


Oh and i am purposefully sending this right before your last day. Now get to it!!!1111

GAH!!! You couldn't have told me this earlier?! WHY?!

Oh, and mosizibby, it was a joke. The correct word is "chunder." Google it. ^_^

Ah yes, the same thing happened to my a few weeks ago when I was on Holiday at Cancun, Mexico.
Her name was Mia, and we were instantly friends. But it was solved by eMail.
Unfortunately, she lives in Pennsylvania (or however you spell it) and I leave in Northern Ireland... why must there be a big pond between us.......

AND WHERE IS BUDDAH!
What is the point of having an "Official Old Fart" if he can't give love advice to Emotionally Distresed Teens!
Buddah, I hope you relize, this means war!

First there's nothing wrong with you.

Second, You just never know, I fell head over heels in love with my husband at 18 (it was love at first sight) and we had a long distance love off and on for many years even after we were married because I joined the AIR FORCE.

And I'm now 45 years old, and when I see him my heart still flutters a beat, and I can't believe my luck! And he thinks I'm pretty hot stuff too!

So she's back in Sydney, but Sydney's a great town, maybe you'll go back later. You should just stay in touch with her so she doesn't think you just forgot about her. Talking is the most important element of falling in love.


Edit:
(People always act like it can't last, but that's baloney, as long as you're both sane and make each other top priority in your lives, it's simple.)