ok before you say "this aint fable,sims,harvestmoon,real life"
i'm just asking where i can find a mod that lets me get married within the game.

i've been looking...but i cant find it....

There is one here. Don't know if it is exactly what you are looking for. It's called housewives.

http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=7110

thats not a very good mod haha...
i should create a mod where you have to do things for the woman. Like quests or something...
then she stays at your home...and has things to do . Or you can have her go on quests with you as a companion.

Just did a search for romance for you, 2 found.
In The Romancing of Eyja mod she becomes your wife & will go on adventures with you.
http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/search.php

http://www.tesnexus.com/downloads/file.php?id=3066

Recruit whoever you want to marry. roleplay it. use the share function to give gifts.

seems like the romancing of ejia was made by a pervert.
haha.

I'm not good at scripting at all, but if u find a mod u like or something, i can show u how to edit the face of that character to your virtual dream babe/dude. it's fairly simple, just like moving the bars on ur own characters face at the beginning of the game. also their's tons of hair and eye mods --sigh-- but a lot of mods don't work with face editing mods. and i'm not sure why so u'd have to ask someone else on that one.