the question is simple and thusly
i downloaded obse and obse launcher but i am having difficults combining the two
each time i try to launch oblivion with obse i get an ob dir error
please check the oblivion directory path in the options screen is corret nd you have obse installed

they dont excactly tell you what to do
and im too tired right now to figure it out

which of the three option should point where too exactly ?

any help would be apreciated

It's the Options tab ... there you can navigate clicking in the buttons... Indeed you just need to supply the path to the directories, not to point to the executable files (since OBSE and OBMM are supposed to be installed in the same directory as Oblivion.exe)

PS: And is because this their names must be the original ones.
The character manager have a path to itself since it don't have the restriction of being at the same Oblivion folder. And the Oblivion.ini as normal is in C:\My Documents\My games\...\Oblivion (these names path can change in non English Windows)

i figured out what i was doing wrong
( installed obse in the D oblivion directory and kept pointing to the C one ...no it wont work then )
and it works now
the mod also works ...ish its a mod for summoning a companion
but half the time she dissapears ina block of yellow and gray badly gourad shaded raw polygons
or her upperbody is gone or wehn looking through the 'filter' her hair and that of my character dissapear

and what exactly can i do about that other then assuming that my viceo card is reaching the end of its tether ?

If is sometimes, the files are in the correct place. Seems your video card may be indeed overloaded or even the CPU is. you can aways try performance mods and utilities, such as: Streamline; Operation Optimization; Quiet feet Max... Remember mods that enhances texture resolution places a heavy burden over the VC. At some point you will have to make compromises or upgrade it.

Remember video card with less then 512 MB VRAM will have very hard time with those high resolution mods.

PS: normally would be the FPS the first to be affected, isn't easy doing a precise diagnosis without testing with other demanding softwares to certify if is a soft or hardware issue.

i tend to run the game in 640 or 800
but i found the scource of the problem it seems one body mod either overwrote or cancelled the other out to such an degree that all bodies in the game are affected

sounds like reinstall time to me