alright, i've spent the last two hours re-arranging my mods in OBMM but i've still got the same problem - the game turns off when i try to lvl up - i get to a bed, choose the advances in attributes, then hit [exit] and the game closes.

i've gotten rid of all the other conflicting mods but am left with:

deadly reflex 3 (conflict with knights over idle bear animation)
knights (conflict with deadly reflex 3 ^)

alive waters (conflict with mehrunes razor over [land])
mehrunes razor (conflict with alive waters ^)

now, my main problem is that if i switch the load order in either of these two pairs, i can't open the save, if not that, i can't lvl up.

is there maybe a console command so i can exit the lvl up screen without the game dying on me?

nevermind....found the problem, although there was no given conflict report about it. apparently "sunlit interiors" and frostacrag aren't compatible, whatever OBMM says.