can someone please tell me where that armour is?! i'm going mad over it....

Wendelbek, All the way to the end you will find a gold werewolf,

By the end i mean you need to go through like 3 doors that have that tree on them. And if you dont know where wendelbeck is buy the book from First edition and read it. there is a map inside it.

so its the salisli or something like that? with the mist on the floor as you walk in?

It's an Ayleid ruin. Read the book and look for there. You'll find an altar outside of the ruin(the altar is related to Mage Guild quest).

Just play the game and explore. It isnt that hard to find. Seriously. I can find it while i am watching T.V., There will be 2 pictures you can take next to a coffin, the armor is inside the coffin. Make sure you have no infamy, or else you wont be able to get the next set of armor.

cool. found it. i chose my armor set nd all. which one did you pick? like reflective? flaming?